Thursday, July 11, 2013

Teaching...

...young people at a seminar on journalism and the media. They are polite and rather predictable...discussing topical events  I introduced the subject of the Royal Baby, and raised ideas about what could be written in a feature on the subject. Baby names, the resonances of history, the awkwardness of having a name that might turn out to have the wrong associations...the future of Royalty...does it have any role...what on earth will things be like when William is king, let alone when his child reigns...but the girls, when left to produce ideas, came up with things about which brand of baby clothes Kate would choose, and how long it would take to get her figure back again.

London in sizzling heat. The girls at the seminar were cool and charming in summery wear: still in school mode, they had dressed for a warm busy day in London, not for the beach.  Alas, moving on and  writing this in Oxford Street, I'm viewing a different and unattractive scene: a great many people are rather plump these days, and wearing tight skimpy clothing in a hot city doesn't flatter them. Tight teeshirts over bulging tummies,  tight shorts,...many look uncomfortably hot, some look scorched. Baseball hats make for a comedian-being-unfunny sadness, as do teeshirts with old slogans. Oh dear.

There's a feature in today's Daily Telegraph about my generation: 60 and up. It gloats that the over-60s are having a wonderful time, self-indulgent,  3 holidays a year, suntanned and relaxed, spending money that earlier generations either didn't have or felt should be passed to children and grandchildren. Oh, and apparently we're cheerfully abandoning marriages and finding "romance" via the Internet. It all sounds ghastly, and if that's what lots of us are really like, the young will loathe  and despise us and see no reason to care for us when we are fading and frail.

It is easy to offer some respect to  the generation that is 80-plus...childhood and teenage years in war and then a young adulthood coping with its aftermath.  We were taught to honour them.     But today's young people, who have in any case not been trained to think in terms of respecting older folk or honouring the status of parents/teachers/authority figures, will not necessarily see any reason to regard the  newly-emerging elderly of the 60s generation  as being of special worth.

Waddling about bragging about new sexual exploits in one's old age sounds simply horrible. 

Christianity is the only sanity, a call to that "more excellent way"...

5 comments:

Aitch said...

Agree with your comments on clothing in town when the temperature rises. I'm 60 and up, still working part-time (sanity and income!) manage one holiday a year if I'm lucky and far from tanned and relaxed, beware stereotypes.

Malcolm said...

The ultimate logic of abortion is suicide. Eventually the abortive woman believes her own propaganda about making her own choices about her own body, and that can have only one result as old age and infirmity creep in.

Whilst in a way you could say this serves them right, obviously we've got to make sure that Catholic baby boomers (including those who have repented of abortions) are not affected. It's not clear how to do that. I am much worried about suicide that by the gay weddings nonsense, however.

johnf said...

It's a bleak prospect for the young, nowadays and my wife and I worry about my children's future - especially that we have been fortunate in getting a good pension and have paid off the mortgage. Many of the jobs that the young are involved with carry very little pension at all. The price of houses seems astronomical and my wife and I will certainly not squander our savings on holidays and such like when we may be called on to help out the children out in some way.

Grandparents also help out in child minding to enable both parents to work. There is a large hidden contribution of the wrinklies to the economy which is hardly recognised

Aitch said...

Quite right johnf, the wrinkly contribution is almost always conveniently ignored, 40 years National insurance contributions and tax, a lot like me still paying tax. Also I can't help noticing the grandparent help given to child care to allow both parents to work and also the care of very elderly parents. But to suit their agendas politicians and commentators endlessly winge on about bus passes ( use mine no more than 3-4 times a month) and "wealthy pensioners" who are living in luxury and draining the economy. It's not us but them who have messed things up. (Steps off soap box)

Anonymous said...

It's a shame that Joanna comments on how "plump" people are. She's hardly slim herself.